news
December 2006
But first, if the going gets tough,
remember…….
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It is possible to find a positive intention behind all behaviour
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People make the best choices available to them at the time
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The meaning of any communication is the response it gets
“I can’t understand why people are frightened of new ideas…….
……..I’m frightened of the old ones.”
John Cage, composer
Nearly 70 participants took part in Core's
innovative one day forum on November 17. We were all challenged by the
presenters to think differently about how we address problems and solutions.
Feedback has been very encouraging:
"I really, really enjoyed myself on Friday
and came away with my head buzzing with 'golden nuggets'."
"I was delighted to see so many delegates ….
The younger contributors indicate the way forward for less adversarial
resolution of conflicting views which in turn will, I hope, lead to a more
understanding approach in establishing effective trading relationships to
mutual benefit."
"I enjoyed the course immensely. It was full
of really practical and helpful stuff which I have no doubt will be of great
benefit."
"An excellent range of speakers, and a good
mix of presentations and interactive workshops, meant that the day passed in a
flash."
Core
intends to offer some of the workshop sessions as stand-alone events in 2007. More information in the near future.
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Mediation Skills Training:
26-29 March 2007
The Early Bird discount for our next mediation course in March extends
until Friday, January 12. To take
advantage of this discount, click here to register on-line or here for a registration form, or contact
There is already
considerable interest in the course and we are looking forward to another
excellent four days (with optional assessment to follow in April).
Miriam Clark, who
recently spent three months with Core, remarked:
“To me one of the most
striking things about actual mediation was how much it resembled the role plays
from the courses. I would never have expected them to mirror each other
so strongly, right down to the words participants used. It not only impressed upon me the
effectiveness of the training provided by Core; but also showed the
universality of human reactions to conflict, confirming for me the relevance of
this training to all aspects of life.”
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Advising and Representing Clients in Mediation:
23 February 2007
An Early Bird discount is also available for this course which is
ideal preparation for solicitors, advocates and others who wish to know more
about mediation, the process, and how to make best use of it for clients and
others.
Core recently
conducted a mediation in
Our mediator flew to the venue which had
been arranged close to the airport. In the course of the day, the parties
involved had serious and frank discussions about the underlying commercial and
other issues which had led to the dispute. They managed to find creative
ways to deal with these and to achieve a resolution of outstanding issues with
which they were all satisfied. A formal agreement was prepared and signed
that evening.
On the Thursday morning, parties were able
to advise the presiding judge in the commercial court that the matter had been
resolved.
Core will happily discuss any matter with
you if you wish to explore whether mediation might be appropriate. Just give us a call. We can talk to the other
parties and we regularly set up without commitment and without cost meetings of
parties or advisers who may wish to use mediation, just to discuss the
possibilities. Call
After consideration of developments in
other jurisdictions, we have revised our suggested mediation clause: click here for the latest version.
We are delighted to welcome
In addition,
In
addition to
Becoming “Dispute-Wise” – December 2006
Beware the Bottom Line – November 2006
Power of Mediation – October 2006
To
read
·
Mediating Dangerously -
The Frontiers of Conflict Resolution: Kenneth Cloke (Jossey Bass)
·
The Thinker’s Toolkit - 14
Powerful Techniques for Problem Solving: Morgan Jones (Three Rivers Press)
·
Freakonomics: Steven Levitt and Stephen Dubner
(Penguin)
·
The World is Flat - The Globalised World in the 21st Century: Thomas Friedman
(Penguin)
·
Financial Freedom - Using
the Wealth Flow System: Duncan Glassey (www.wealthflow.org)
We
at Core wish you a happy Christmas and a peaceful and prosperous 2007.
In
accordance with our usual custom, we shall not be sending Christmas cards this
year. However, we shall be making a donation to the excellent work of MercyCorps which is engaged in relief, education, skills
and conflict management work in some of the most challenging situations in the
world, including
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